The study offers an empirically derived model of clients’ experiences of disengaged moments, defined as moments when clients withdraw, distance, or lessen their intensity of involvement with therapy-relevant material or relationships. Interpersonal Process Recall (IPR) interviews were conducted with nine psychotherapy clients of therapists with varied orientations and experience. The interviews were transcribed verbatim and subjected to qualitative analysis using grounded theory analysis (Glaser and Strauss, The discovery of grounded theory: Strategies for qualitative research, 1967) methodology. The results suggested that clients use disengagement for protection from pain, strategic retreat, relationship management, self-through-other discovery, and self-betterment. The core category across all of the experiences of disengagement relates to communicating difficulties and experimenting within the therapy relationship toward self-change. Recommendations are offered for research and practice.