Courtship, mating and spermatophores of Phrynichus exophthalmus and P. deflersi arabicus nov. ssp. are described. Courtship of P. exophthalmus is more complex than in other amblypygids, with close contact between mates nearly throughout the mating dance. After spermatophore formation, the female is lured to the spermatophore and then firmly pressed onto it. Mating behaviour and spermatophore confirm the placement of this species in the Phrynichus ceylonicus group and show that the similarities with Euphrynichus, like long and thin pedipalps with bacilliform apophyses instead of spines, are the result of convergent evolution. Courtship of P. d. arabicus is conservative, similar to that of P. dhofarensis and many other amblypygids. After spermatophore formation, the female is lured to the spermatophore, then pulled over and pressed onto it. The results suggest that the P. ceylonicus group and the P. deflersi group and sister groups, but the low number of investigated species precludes a definite conclusion.